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i was going to write and diagram mens room etiquette stuff but then the larry craig debacle happened.. and i was waiting for things to air out before posting about it… and the other is.. there are rules and then there are the ‘rules’ and you don’t talk about some of this… but here goes

the thing is.. you learn early on that there are rules and unsaid rules about going to the restroom as a man…

unlike women who go to the ladies room to talk about how cute the guy at the bar is… and chat it up… going to the mens room has 3 purposes… get the number 1 or number 2 going on… and let loose the gas … you know.. the f word.. and vomitting

growing up.. you learn quickly by observing the behaviour of other people and following suit… no questions… just do what everyone else is doing

so men… this is a refresher on the ‘rulesand for you ladies.. this should give you some perspective on why the larry craig thing is so creepy and way beyond the norn

no eye contact — never look at somebody.. give the obligatory nod and move on. you are not there to make friends

dont look down — look straight ahead or straight forward.. looking down gives off weird vibes about you checking the other guys package out

spacing — do not stand right next to another person if there is a way to leave at least 1 urinal in between… the more spaces the better. it is better to use a stall with a door if urinal spacing is an issue or there is a long wait or potential for shoulders touching (ick) .. also limits cross urinal splash back…

no talking — nuff said

no squeezing in between others — this means that if there are 5 urinals, and #1 and number #3 are being used.. then you do not go to #2 … way weird vibes. #4 is still marginal .. go to #5

pee downward — peeing straight into the urinal will cause splash back that looks like you pissed your pants
so.. you can start to see why the craig thing is so whack… more like george michael story than mishap…

for those with kids.. shield the eyes as much as possible and keep them from looking around too much… especially if you are at a broncos game .. and they have the trough style piss wall… make sure that you prepare your chil’ren first and make sure they are ready for something like a pg-13 movie…. nothing as pleasant as exposing your kids to 40 guys pissing together intos something like a kitchen sink

that is as much as i can write for now.. cause i am gonna go throw up now (purpose #3 …)

saw a red pickup truck driving home tonight.. with the following in white shoe polish on the

i want to thank the ‘oil companies’ for taking food out of my childrens mouth… because of your GREED.

um… the dude was not exactly trim.. so maybe this guy was taking the food out of the mouth of his kids…  maybe it is his fault for driving a truck that gets lets gas mileage than say… a smaller car.. but again.. dude was kind of chunky so he may not be able to fit in say a honda fit..

people rail so much about things that they can actually control but choose not to.  they complain about gas prices while driving land barges like hummers and tahoes.. and it is all about the greed of the oil companies…  not their own need for stuff that consumes the goods the oil companies are offering…

shame on you truck driver man…   there is some dork that fit his truck with bio-diesel and got over 90,000 miles while only filling up his tank with real fuel a few times…

the duke lacrosse players that were unjustly named, charged, smeared, kicked out, jobs lost look to be getting a little reprieve…

all of the evidence.. wait.. there are 4.. no 8 different stories on what happened? seems to be enough to exculpate these young men… but just the process of having their name put out there that way… and having a negligent and power hungry overreaching prosecutor in mike nifong who appeared more interested in getting re-elected than carrying out justice .. who should be disbarred at minimum.. and at best.. behind bars and paying restitution to the families of these  young men and announcing at every turn that he was wrong and that he ruined lives.

not trying to blame a potential victim.. but this woman has made reporting rape that much harder now for any young lady on campus… what was a he said/she said issue is now going to carry a nifong cloud… not just in durham, nc .. but everywhere.  especially when the incidents of rape are already a meager 1 in 4 reported.. this retard brings more shame on the victim… both nifong and the accuser.. if she fabricated all of this… need to be in prision…  good luck not getting raped in there mike.

lets see how this plays out.. but at this point.. they need to fully drop all charges pending on these guys and let them live their lives… there is not enough evidence to hold them hostage and psychologically, financially, and emotionally rape these guys and their families any further

part 2 of the english to korean to engrish to koreum to konglish — this is horrible.. and to think that people use this as a method to translate things for business .. scary… or should i .. wait.. i don’t know what to say.. fix it google/bablefish/rosetta stone/whatever translator you are using .. you can’t just tag everthing beta or charge hundreds of dollars .. cause your non-beta translation suck just as bad ..

you can actually buy your own translation sweat shop slave .. cause all the koreans learn english.. and translation should be fine.. or just keep using the free online stuff that is pretty good for what it is.. but still

using a simple .. very well known nursery rhyme…

twinkle, twinkle, little star, how I wonder what you are up above the world so high, like a diamond in the sky. twinkle, twinkle, little star, how I wonder what you are

당신이 인 무슨을 나가 생각해 보는 방법, 반짝임, 반짝임, 적은 별. 하늘에 있는 다이아몬드 같이 세계의 위 높은 쪽으로 이렇게 높이. 당신이 인 무슨을 나가 생각해 보는 방법, 반짝임, 반짝임, 적은 별.

this person of you it goes out and the method which it tries to think, it glitters, it glitters, the enemy the star. the diamond which is to sky with the together up of the world it is like this high piece height. this person of you it goes out and the method which it tries to think, it glitters, it glitters, the enemy the star


당신 의 이 사람은 그것 나가고 생각하는 것을 시도하는 방법, 그것 빛난다, 적 별 빛난다. 세계의 함께 위로를 가진 하늘에 그것인 다이아몬드는 이 높은 조각 고도 같이 이다. 당신의 이 사람은 그것 나가고 생각하는 것을 시도하는 방법, 그것 빛난다, 적 별 빛난다

You this person goes out and it the method the fact that it thinks, it it shines, the enemy star it shines. The formation of a cabinet altitude where the diamond which is it in the sky which has together the comfort of the world is high together is. You this person goes out and it the method the fact that it thinks, it it shines, the enemy star it shines

well in 14 days.. it is gonna be a different kind of black sunday…

it will still be the superbowl…. but it is not a terrorist plot to blow things up… it is about 2 black coaches blowing up and making it to the superbowl on the same day…

it will be historic… 2 teams both coached by black coaches….  congrats to both.. well deserved.. long awaited.

hours after lovie smith .. coach of the chicago bears beat down the saints to become the first black coach to make it to the superbowl… it looked like he would be there alone…

tony dungy overcame the initial meltdown by his indianapolis colts quarterback peyton manning.. to become the second black coach to make it to the super bowl.  i am glad that peyton has this monkey off his back too… lets see if he chokes in the big dance

about time.. it is a shame that it took this long for this to happen.

hey… this is the lack helicopter section… but you think that maybe they planned this.. to make sure that 2 black coaches made it to the superbowl.. which will be in black history month?  kinda like when denzel washington and halle berry won at the same time? who knows.

over 70% of the players in the nfl are african american.  but there are only like 15-20% of the coaching slots are filled by african americans.

it is time to get more coaches in .. especially with art shell getting canned that is one less african american coach in the nfl… stupid cracker al davis..

so… maybe you have heard the story about tycho brahe and how he died cause he challenged some other dude to a no pissing contest. hmm.. maybe that is where the saying comes from. who is tycho brahe you ask? all i will say is kepler orbits his work. look it up… or a sad commentary on the state of education..

even more sad is the story of this women.. ironically named jennifer strange… a mother of 3.. that entered a contest to drink the most water and not go to the bathroom for a chance to win a nintendo wii. she is dead. water intoxication… basically drowned to death.. and cause her organs to fail because of electrolyte imbalance.. hmm.. so many common sense things that are wrong here and she worked in a medical field at a radiology center…. read here

what a stupid way to die… you hear the stories about how even terri shiavo ended up how she did because she drank too much ice tea.. all the kids that die when they take x [ecstacy] cause they are sooo thirsty.

it is not like her kids can go out and say.. my mom drank herself to death… or.. she no pee-pee go dead.

darwin awards… here we come

we were at the nuggets game last night… booooooo … what a dull game .. the only highlight was that we had the entire suite that my wifes company owns… and iverson had one really awesome drive to the hoop…

well… 3rd qtr…. rocky the super mascot has a camera on the fans to dance…. gets up to the 3rd level and spots this white/nerdy guy. and right away.. he gets his funky groove on… and then out of nowhere.. lifts his shirt. a little.. and it is a hairy belly.. and the crowd is boooing and eeewwwwing… so rocky locks back in on him. guy starts dancing again.. and then lifts his shirt again…

what the heck.. is there some weird girls gone wild syndrome … where if you are on camera.. you are obligated to lift your shirt and show your man boobs?

well… it gets worse. the hairy man completely takes his shirt off… think chris farley doing the chippendale dance with patrick swayze… but much less funny.

the ewwing and icks start to build.. and for whatever reason.. the guy gets emboldened … and starts loosening his belt. .. this draws even more jeers but he keeps going.

it gets worse… he starts to unbutton and unzip his pants…. and starts acting like he is teasing us that he was gonna pull this draws down too…

he throws his shirt over the ledge.. and some catches it.. maybe thinking that they caught a free shirt.. and then realizing that it was from that freaky stripper dude on the 3rd level… and they quickly start throwing down to the court… as the shirt makes it to the court.. the cops finally get to the guy holding his arms to prevent him from dropping trou

although the most gross moment in the game… it was funny … just wonder where dignity and a sense of shame are.. do they go out the door with the $6 beers or is it that they are being seen… even on close caption.. wonder what this guy would hve done i he knew he was on national tv…

paycheck or payday loan business is booming. i passed by 2 on bridge st in less than 1 mile. and these businesses are profiting off the needs and stupid financial decisions of desperate people

i worked on a server farm for an online payday load processor.. that went from a single server to over 12 servers by years end…

their big thing was $500 now.. before your next paycheck…

the thing is … it is great if you hit a rough patch in life and need to take out a paycheck loan for $300-$500.. but for ease.. i will just use $500 as that seems to be the default amount now a days…

so.. you need some cash now.. and your credit cards are maxed out… and family is not able to help you…

so what do you do?

pawn your car? no.. then you can’t get to work to make money to pay any loan back and you will lose your car.
pawn your jewelry? well.. may work.. but a lot of people sell ther wedding rings and such and a lot of times are unable to reclaim…

payday loans… yeah thats it. they are everywhere. the stigma is gone… from sneaking into and out of these establishments…

ok.. now back to that $500.

you write a check for the amount you are taking out as well as the ‘fee’ .. read interest.. of in this case.. $75 until your next payday…. read 2 weeks. so you write your check for $575.. and walk out with $500… on the face of it.. that is 15% interest if you paid it off when the 2 weeks were done. that is actually not that bad. a lot of credit cards are at 12%-23% … so.. right in the middle.. again.. not that bad… if you were desperate.

lets say that 2 weeks comes around and you are still in trouble… they offer a rollover plan… so you can just pay the ‘fee’ and write another check for $575 dated for 2 weeks from that time. ok… now you have basically committed yourself to 30% interest for that $500… with a total ‘fee’ of $150.

keep going… and add 15% each 2 weeks you are hurting.. and not able to pay the full $575 in full.. cause remember.. you were desperate for the money.. did not have that in the bank to begin with. bought too many presents… whatever… but you were thinking that it was gnna be like free cash.. without remembering that you have locked yourself into a system that can trap you very easily…

lets say you go 2 months… that is $300 worth of ‘fees’ .. and if you were desperate enough to take out a loan for $500.. then $300 is significant to you….. and that would be 60% interest … are you getting a picture of a loan shark at this point?

the fine print says…the max interest they can charge you is somewhere between 650% to 700% per year…. are you kidding me???

650% of $500 = $3,250.00

in one year.. there is a potential.. and i have heard of people that have gone months and months just rolling over their loans…. so even if it was half that… $1,125.00 ?!?!?!?!!!

i think this is where church comes into play… if you see need. you do something about it. quit sitting around at starbucks with your $5 coffee and get in community… isn’t that what we are called to do? instead of spending $50 at a crappy dinner at chili’s.. you think that if you got 10 people in a church of 1500… that spent that $50 that they would have used on a weekday dinner on someone in need? no interest. no fee. no rollover.

i have been reading and delving into how dietrich bonhoeffer changed the perception of what church was supposed to be… not just about our personal relationship with God… but about how our relationship with God fits into our responsibility to be in community. he was one of the first to talk about being ‘in communinity’. actually living the sermon on the mount … and not seeing it as a spotlight on out sinful nature… and as a slam against us on what we can’t ever be… but that does not mean you don’t try

i want the maytag store that nobody went to back… and not that paycheck loan store. every time i see the neon with ‘no credit check’ .. ‘up to $500 cash’ .. i want to take a bat and beat the signs in…

there are so many people in our communities… both in church and in neighborhoods that are hurting so bad.. get into houses they can’t afford. are so house poor that they can’t feed their kids. every interest rate hike means turning down the thermostat just a bit more… a lot of us are so lucky. a lot of us have the luxury of being able to go out to eat pretty much when we want to. a lot of us have homes that we can afford. a lot of us have cars that are dependable… and then there is the other half of our community…. that need to have their kids on subsidized lunches, jackets that are too small… and barely live paycheck to paycheck….

i don’t want socialism… cause capitalism rocks.. but i want these scam artists and pseudo loan sharks gone… and the church to step up and relearn the word benevolence and caring for the poor

i apologize for the corny car 54 where are you reference…

hmm… where the heck are mark foley, ted haggard, et al. all of those lightning rod (whoa) figures leading up the the elections…

did you hear much about the ethics commitee that found no wrong doing for in the handling of the mark foley case? whatever.. but really.. that was not covered much at all.. both democrats and rebublicans on the commitee… saying nobody knew to what extent maf54 had crossed the line

did you hear that ted haggard is leaving colorado? did you ever hear if he had come out or if he was going to stay straight?

did you hear in the news about the youth director from new life church in the springs also being dismissed in a sex scandal.. and it being plastered all over the front pages of local fish rags for nearly a week?

looks like these guys were great for pointing out corruption and hypocricy on the rebulican side.. but the lack of followup shows the hypocricy on the democratic side… it is great to bash the people when elections and cameras on watching.. but the issues that they claim are important to them fall on the wayside once the camera stops looking.

sometimes i am glad i have citizenship to another country… i can do the ‘go home gook’ that was scrawled on my locker in high school… cause in korea… if there are issues.. politicians go all kung fu fighting in the halls… they get it out in the open.. and then they keep hammering you until you submit… they don’t let up when the lights and camera are gone

oh yeah… last i knew.. the guy that wrote that on my locker was a skin head getting snowballs hitting him in the head at a martin luther king rally in denver…

donald trump is a dork

what the heck is going on with the pageants lately… miss usa (tara conner), miss teen usa (katie blair), miss nevada (katie rees).. and actually.. does anyone even watch the shows anymore? even after jon benet and seeing little girls all dolled up .. weren’t we all just over watching pageants… not that i watched any in the first place… well.. except when miss korea won miss universe or something… parents made me watch that

in the current case…. miss usa doing cocaine, drinking and making out with miss teen usa .. who it would seem was also drinking….

also.. how come trump let miss usa stay but bounced miss nevada?

i was telling my wife that it was cause miss usa is gonna be the next mrs trump….. so that is why she got to stay. miss nevada apologized.. why not give her another chance…

wait.. taking tin foil cap off… i dreamt that i was blogging about some beauty pageant or something stupid like that… but then i realize that… i am in fact awake. what if all of this was a ploy by donald trump to get attention for himself and the next season of the apprentice?  or is it just cause ‘little miss sunshine’ is out and it was probably my favorite movie of this past year.. and i had to use a clip someplace

i think i liked ‘little miss sunshine’ so much because it put the pageant scene into a funny light… that a little girl doing the super freak dance… so wrong.. but so funny. i think the dance just shows the scale to which the pageants are out of control and what a stepford wife cookie cutter cult starting system it is…


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